Friday, November 13, 2009

Can't Live Without Her? - How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend

No one looks forward to a break up and it can be very difficult for all those involved. Breaking up poses the problem of loneliness as well as being away from the person you love most. It can be a very stressful time trying to win back your ex girlfriend, but, with a little patience and a belief that your relationship is worth going through getting back together, it can be possible. There are a few tips that can help win her back and make your relationship stronger than before.

The first step in winning back your ex girlfriend is to really evaluate your relationship. While many people think it is a good idea to constantly call and stay in contact with the girl, it is actually more important to take some time by yourself and go over what went wrong and how you can fix it. There are many decisions that need to be made to find out if getting back together is in the best interest of both of you. You need to have this time in order to think clearly and really analyze whatever decision you make.

One decision you have to make is if you are committed enough to make the relationship work. If you are not willing to take the steps in keeping a good relationship together nor willing to make the change, there is no point in trying to win back your ex girlfriend. Relationships take a lot of time ! and effort and one of the first things you need to decide is i! f your r elationship is worth your commitment and your time and if this is something you really want.

When winning back your ex girlfriend, it is important to understand that love and romance are the keys to making a relationship work. You need her to know that you still love her and be willing to show that love every day. If this girl is worth getting back, showing her you care should not be something you have to do, but something you want to. Even if it is something as simple as writing a poem or surprising her with flowers, any small gesture will help her to see that she is an important part of your life.

Although in the beginning you will need time alone, try not to take too much time. It is important that she knows you are thinking of her and even though you are not together, she is still in your tho! ughts. Women like to know they are being thought of and if you close the lines of communication, there is little chance of being able to win back your ex girlfriend. If you are really serious about getting her back, just showing her that she is worth getting back can make all the difference.

By Mark J Thompson

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